🕊️ How Do You Solve an Argument?
2nd Grade 🤝 Life Skills
Arguments happen to everyone. You can solve them by calming down, listening, using "I" messages and finding a fair solution together.
1. Cool down
Take a few deep breaths or a short break. It is hard to solve a problem when you are angry.
2. Talk and listen
Take turns talking. Use "I" messages: "I feel upset when you take my markers without asking." Then really listen to the other person’s side.
3. Find a solution
Think of ideas together: take turns, share, or find a compromise where each person gives a little. Pick one that feels fair to both.
4. Get help
If you can’t solve it, or if someone is getting hurt, ask a teacher or another trusted adult.
Quick quiz
What should you do first in an argument?
Which is an "I" message?
What is a compromise?